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Dating 101 - MAN UP!!

My gay sons and I recently had lunch and they asked me how I stayed in a monogamous relationship with my beloved so long and how they could achieve the same. Now both are smart, educated, stable and masculine but they can’t seem to find anyone who wants “to date” as they put it. This answer has several aspects that must be considered so a quick lunch turned into 3-hour discussion. It is amazing to me how we sometimes overlook the obvious solution. Here is my response to their…


Added by Brotha 2Da Night on March 30, 2018 at 2:10pm — No Comments

Grand Prize Singles Experience, LLC (GPS Experience)

“Nothing is more powerful than an idea whose time has come”. – Victor Hugo. Over the past three years we have been working on bringing the book Grand Prize Lookin’ for a Winner, a Dating/Relationship Guide for Gay Men of Color to life!

We are…


Added by Cleon T. Day, III on December 8, 2016 at 2:00pm — No Comments

Legendary Lady Chablis Dead At 59

y Lady Chablis Dead At 59


Added by Cleon T. Day, III on September 8, 2016 at 2:22pm — No Comments

Ageism versus Dating

(An editorial by Cleon T. Day, III)



Older men are hot! Of course, at age 62 I’m going to be a little bias but there is a bias out here in the gay dating world against older men.  What’s alarming it’s just not younger men not considering older men but older men not considering older men for…


Added by Cleon T. Day, III on June 8, 2016 at 11:00am — 3 Comments

The Baldwin Project

Hello men, below is a VERY IMPORTANT survey from “The Baldwin Project” of which I am one of the co-founders. Please take time to fill it out and share with those in your social circles. Thank you!

"The Baldwin Project" named in honor of the late legendary Black Gay author and activist, James Baldwin, aims to assist the initiatives of new and aspiring Black LGBT business owners in Atlanta to establish themselves within a cultural district…


Added by Cleon T. Day, III on October 19, 2015 at 11:33am — No Comments

Thought for Today

Looking for prosperity? It is right in front of your face. Many
times the actual things you need are right in front of you. So look
for them. Allow God to direct you as you achieve and grow. He
wants to prosper you right where you are!

Added by Russell Williams on July 21, 2015 at 8:45am — No Comments

The new Pay-Cation pyramid plan

What is the communities thoughts on this new pay-cation multi- level plan? Now four friends and possibly growing have asked me to become part of the new pay-cation plan. Whereas I wish them a great financial success I can't help for considering how similar these plans are to Amway and Excel telephone plan for those of us to remember that long distance plan lol. My fear is that too many people of color are late to the table when it comes to such plans. This particular scheme tries to make… Continue

Added by Gene Webster-English on May 23, 2015 at 10:19pm — No Comments

Can Closeted Males Be Role Models?

When I was chairman of the Board, My Brothaz Keeper, Inc. we had a dilemma, whether or not to allow closeted homosexuals to serve on our board (the present board members were openly homosexual). 



There were two trains of thought, he/she represented a segment in the homosexual community and he/she would be going after donors…


Added by Cleon T. Day, III on April 30, 2015 at 4:47pm — 1 Comment

Greener Pastures

In being a mature older male or a younger male looking forward in getting there, is the grass always greener on the other side (older) when it comes to maturity in dating, relationships and respect of others in the community?  If yes, then why are some many older men who are looking, growing old alone? If not,…


Added by Cleon T. Day, III on January 14, 2015 at 3:30pm — No Comments

2015 Handbook


1. Drink plenty of water.

2. Eat breakfast like a king, lunch like a prince and dinner like a beggar.

3. Eat more foods that grow on trees and plants and eat less food that is manufactured in plants..

4. Live with the 3 E's --…


Added by Cleon T. Day, III on January 5, 2015 at 6:27pm — 1 Comment

Bayard Rustin with Dr. King made an impact in the Black Community, what about Black Gay Men now?

A short editorial by Cleon T. Day, III

Many Gay Black men complain about Gay Black men, however never offer anything positives to say about being a Gay black man. Other than stating the fashion and theater world would be nowhere with Gay men’s contributions, nothing is said directing…


Added by Cleon T. Day, III on January 5, 2015 at 6:23pm — 2 Comments

Single and Looking

I believe those who are single and looking want the same thing from a man:



  • Love but not just love, unconditional Love
  • Honesty, the kind that leaves him…

Added by Cleon T. Day, III on October 22, 2014 at 6:09pm — 2 Comments

A Short Review of "Blackbird", plus tidbits from the Q & A from the director & actors

By Cleon T. Day, III

Blackbird is a wonderful entertaining film we can all relate to, a young black youth coming to terms with his sexuality. Although Patrick’s Blackbird doesn’t follow closely to the book, his rendering of the unfolding of the main character’s coming of age makes it…


Added by Cleon T. Day, III on October 5, 2014 at 8:30pm — No Comments

Is being a Wallflower why a number of homosexual men are Single (not by choice)?




Wikipedia Definition of WallFlower(People) In social situations, a wallflower is a shy or unpopular individual who doesn't socialize or participate in activities at social events. He or she may have other talents but usually does not express them in the presence of other…


Added by Cleon T. Day, III on September 17, 2014 at 9:22am — 1 Comment

Questioning the “Not Settling For Less” Mentality

An Editorial by Cleon T. Day, III




It’s alright to remain single for the rest of your life if that’s truly your passion, to be alone but if you are using it as by default because you can’t find a man worthy of you, maybe you need to rethink your “not settling for less” philosophy”. –…


Added by Cleon T. Day, III on September 17, 2014 at 7:57am — No Comments

Opportunity's Knocking for Atlanta's Men of Color Pursuing a Same-sex Relationship!

So, a big event is opening on October 2nd in Atlanta. Director Patrik-Ian Polk (“Noah’s Arc”) is making his national southeaster premier of his latest movie “BLACK BIRDS”! It stars Academy Award winner Mo'Nique, Isaiah Washington and Julian Walker as 17-year-old Randy, a devout choir boy living in a…


Added by Cleon T. Day, III on September 15, 2014 at 1:03pm — No Comments


Out on Film, Film Festival presents, “Black Bird”, Showing Thursday, October 2, 2014 at 7:15 p.m. at the Landmark Midtown Art Cinema, 931 Monroe Drive, Atlanta


Out On Film’s opening night feature film is "Blackbird."

The film is…


Added by Cleon T. Day, III on September 7, 2014 at 4:00pm — No Comments

Letting a Guy Know You're Not Interested In Him

You are single and looking.  You’re out somewhere; a nice guy approaches you and strikes up a conversation.  You get it, he’s making a pass at you, not of sex but wanting to know you better and you to know him. 


For whatever reason you’re sincerely not interested…


Added by Cleon T. Day, III on September 2, 2014 at 6:30pm — No Comments

Is “Sagging” giving off sexual messages?

An editorial by Cleon T. Day, III



I believe this “sagging” thing is and will be a passing fad like hot pants in its day (worn not only by women but heterosexual men too).  The “sagging” debate about its origin; whether it started in prison where men claimed their “bitch” or it began even…


Added by Cleon T. Day, III on August 24, 2014 at 1:06pm — No Comments

Love Is Deep, it makes you want to holler and throw up both your hands!

Love is deep. There’s an extra layer of heartbreak when a man who loves men has a broken heart. Whether a man is a publicly open homosexual or is “in the closet”, loving a man instead of a woman it is a big deal in America.  Although Americans are becoming more accepting of homosexuals there’s still…


Added by Cleon T. Day, III on April 24, 2014 at 5:45pm — No Comments

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